tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30666606.post4022048357387183692..comments2023-07-25T09:20:40.584-05:00Comments on Exactly where I am: A week I'd like to forgetbeanshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11859055654446653954noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30666606.post-85080596084501931962009-10-26T01:00:17.721-05:002009-10-26T01:00:17.721-05:00This comment has been removed by a blog administrator.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30666606.post-37254945197382346602009-10-14T20:53:14.017-05:002009-10-14T20:53:14.017-05:00Boy do I feel like an ass. I haven't been blo...Boy do I feel like an ass. I haven't been blog hopping at all lately and I had no idea what all was going on. All I DO know is that I was so happy to see you at church even if it was so you could see my 15 seconds of fame and facial hair on the big screen.<br /><br />I may not have a clue as to what I'm talking about, but maybe it was good that you tried cutting again after all this time just to find out it doesn't fix anything.<br /><br />Totally off subject here, but maybe not - how are your Fridays? Any chance we can get a Starbuck's meetup when you get back from Texas?Jensterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15639970448069931471noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30666606.post-374691115117808112009-10-05T11:21:22.292-05:002009-10-05T11:21:22.292-05:00I could tell how much stress you were under and fe...I could tell how much stress you were under and felt so helpless to do anything. I want to remind you again, if you ever need to talk, any time, call me. Don't forget how helpful you were to me, when I was alone in a hotel room, with a daughter in a hospital.<br />I'm glad you opened up and are taking the steps you need to to get back in a better, more stable place. You need to put yourself first (I know what your thinking, I'm should practice what I preach, but I am trying), taking some time away from your parents right now is a good thing, your friend is so right, you can't be a case manager to your own family. Is it possible to get them some services, where they live? You need to protect your needs, your life with DP and your work with shrinky-dink.<br />I admire you for facing this head on and I believe you will get through it.<br />XXXXXXXAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30666606.post-77576434716997224682009-10-05T07:49:56.185-05:002009-10-05T07:49:56.185-05:00Thanks everyone. I appreciate the words of encoura...Thanks everyone. I appreciate the words of encouragement and kicks in the ass . . .much needed!<br /><br /><br />Lyn- Yes, very hard, but you know, here I am at Monday and I am in good spirits so I am hoping that I can refocus myself and do what needs to be done. I seem to have a list of tasks to work on ;)<br /><br />Daisy-DP was wonderful and while I know it was very very hard for her, she was amazing and provided the right kind of support. I have a feeling shrinky dink will likely have some more words for me when I see her this week . . .<br /><br />KJ--Not insensitive at all . . .sometimes we all need to hear it like it is. I am thankful as well that it didn't do what I expected or I believe I could be in a different place right now. Being honest was hard, but I know in the long run having lied about it or just not telling her until later would have been worse. Maybe I will call you for some lessons in how to be constructively angry!<br /><br />Caroline--ugh, it sucks and it is hard. I am glad you aren't doing it anymore, and are finding other ways to get through the cruddy times. I have made note of your number in my phone. I know things have been hard for you also lately, so you know where to find me as well.<br /><br />Ok, off to work for real now!beanshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11859055654446653954noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30666606.post-77704570309715859592009-10-04T19:27:49.036-05:002009-10-04T19:27:49.036-05:00I am sorry that you have had a rough couple of wee...I am sorry that you have had a rough couple of weeks. <br /><br />I completely understand about the whole cutting thing. I didn't start cutting until I was in my late 20s and have not cut in 2+ years, but a few things happened in the last few weeks and those thoughts came up in my mind. It scared me and I shared with a close friend because I felt that by sharing it with someone than maybe I would not want to do it. <br /><br />If you need to talk, please call me 785-766-6596. I am here for you and I understand those feelings you have. <br /><br />Hugs and lots of love.Carolinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14476059033054104085noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30666606.post-18510378959623264662009-10-04T19:26:25.797-05:002009-10-04T19:26:25.797-05:00Sorry you are having such a shitty week. 6 years...Sorry you are having such a shitty week. 6 years is a long time to fall off of the wagon. <br />I'm glad it hurt. I know that sounds insensitive but I'm glad it didn't give you the feelings you were looking for. I'm so proud of you for being honest with your partner too.<br />Good luck with your appointment with your head shrink. If you need someone to yell at and get mad at...TOTALLY good at taking the abuse. Throw it my way :)K J and the kidshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11768311213861195548noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30666606.post-16928828652476502392009-10-04T19:24:05.062-05:002009-10-04T19:24:05.062-05:00I am SO sorry you're going through this rough ...I am SO sorry you're going through this rough spell. I'm glad you have Shrinky-Dink to talk to and DP who seems to be an understanding lovebug. If you'd like to talk, call me.<br /><br />HUGS!!!Daisyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05401667744228083776noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30666606.post-27893935740635468722009-10-04T18:49:13.163-05:002009-10-04T18:49:13.163-05:00I'm sorry it was such a rough week, but it sou...I'm sorry it was such a rough week, but it sounds to me like progress, nonetheless. There is no quick fix (you know that, of course), but you are meeting the challenges and you'll get through it. I know you will. :)Lyniluhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04742585512852240355noreply@blogger.com